Would you think your spouse was after your money if he hired an attorney to look into your personal trustfund? | |
I lost a parent in an accident. In a few months I will be coming into a trust fund. I married a man and did not have him sign a prenup. We eloped when we were very young and we still are young. Now I am of the age to receive my funds. At the request of my other parent I am to have my husband sign away rights to my trust fund. My husband said he would not sign any papers and his family felt the same way and he has now even consulted with an attorney. I am having my paper work drawn up and I feel as though if he does not sign this paper then he will be given divorce papers. I love him but if he loved me then he would sign these papers. I went through hell when I lost my parent and this money is the last thing I will ever receive from him. If my husband and I got a divorce and he ended up with half of it I couldn't bear it. I could get over a broken heart but not a broken wallet on top of it. Maybe I am wrong to feel this way. I need an outsiders opinon of this. Please adivse
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1This one is driving me crazy! I do not understand why he is consulting an Attorney about you inheritance and I don't understand why his Family feel that they should have an opinion in this matter.
Do you have any children with this man? I hope not!
With him consulting an Attorney one can't help but wonder if he is thinking of a divorce? This would really concern me if I were you and I totally understand were you are coming from.
Have the two of you ever sat down and talked this situation over?
When my husband inherited money, we talked all the time and it was always going to be his decision and fortunately he wanted a home for us. I would never of presumed that I should of had an opinion about his inheritance. It was nice that he wanted to do things for his family, BUT if he would of wanted to spent it all on himself, I felt that was up to him.
If you do end up with him walking away with your money, try to think of it as being the cost you had to pay to get rid of him.
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